Oboe Brilliance: The art of mentoring lesson #2 listening and questioning ©Kathryn Potter 2009
Listen well and speak well to your student. It's a great habbit to cultivate!
Your job as an Oboe Brilliance mentor is to listen deeply, compassionately, and to guide the student towards self discovery via the art of oboe playing. This is aided by the art of asking questions instead of instructing all the time.
Students, I believe, need to be heard and understood. Hearing them and understanding helps them hear and understand themselves better. It’s important to foster an air of discovery and encouragement through patient emotional safety while also being clearly directive and focused.
Let’s say a student plays a phrase. You can ask the questions such as:-
1) What did you hear in the music itself? What did you hear in your playing?
2) What did you like about your playing? What do you like about this musical phrase?
3) What would you like to do better? How can you bring it to life more fully?
4) How can you do that?
5) What did you express? – How would you describe what you expressed? Was that your intention?
6) What’s a different way to play that?
7) How do feel when you hear it that way?
8) What can you express differently? And so on…
Since each student is different, it makes sense to cater the questions that you feel the specific student is ready to answer.
Listening patiently without interrupting or creating an air of impatience is extremely helpful in fostering the development of the highest musical ability in another as well as a positive student teacher relationship. Wanting to hear what the student is playing and saying is vital! Questions can be leading, or sincerely open. It’s your call as the teacher/mentor as long as the bottom line is respect for the individual musical voice as well as your own discretion of where you as the teacher draw the line for instructing/teaching/mentoring – see lesson one about the distinction of instructing/teaching/ mentoring.
Listening deeply to the student’s atmosphere expressed via body language, tone of voice, musical expression, mental state, emotional state and energy will help you bring the student out to shine brighter musically. Being aware of all of the above about you is of course helpful! Being you consciously helps the student be him or herself more consciously.